Friday, December 9, 2011

Touching story...♥

This story like this... there's an old couple around the age of 70 want to divorce.
This couple had been quarreling all their 40 over yrs of marriage nothing ever seems to go right...

They hang on because of their children, afraid that it might affect their up bringing. Now, all their children have already grown up, have their own family, there's nothing else the old couple have to worry about, all they wanted is to lead their own life free from all these years of unhappiness from their marriage, so both agree on a divorce..
the wife said "I really love u, but i really cant carry on anymore, I'm sorry.."
"Its o.k, i understand.." said the husband...Looking at this, the lawyer suggested a dinner together, just 3 of them,wife thought, why not, since they are still gonna be friends..


when dinner...The first dish was roasted chicken, immediately, the old man took the drumstick for the old lady.."take this, its your favorite.."
Looking at this, the lawyer thought maybe there's still a chance, but the wife was frowning when she answer.."
This is always the problem, you always think so highly of yourself, never thought about how I feel, dont you know that i hate drumsticks?"


Little did she know that, over the years, the husband have been trying all ways to please her, little did she know that drumsticks was the husband's favorite...


that night both of them cant sleep..
and the old man try to call her and want to say "im sorry.. i love you


he never stop dialing..
but wife never answer the phone..On the other side, wife was sad, she couldn’t understand how come after all these years, he still doesnt understand her at all, she loves him a lot, but she just cant take it anymore...."whats the point of talking now that its over...
and she continue dint answer the phone..
Little did she remember, he have heart problems...
The next day, she received news that he had passed away.


she rushed down to his apartment, saw his body, lying on the couch still holding on to the phone...he had a heart attack when he was still trying to get through her phone line....
As sad as wife could be…wife will have to clear his belongings...when she was looking thru the drawers, she saw this insurance policy, dated from the day they got married, with the beneficiary being her... And together in those file, there was this note...
"To my dearest wife, by the time you're reading this, I'm sure I'm no longer around, I bought this policy for you, though the amount is only $100k, I hope it will be able to help me continue my promise that i have made when we got married, I might not be around anymore, I want this amount of money to continue taking care of you, just like the way I will if I could have live longer. I want you to know Iwill always be around, by your side... I love you"
her wife crying... her tears not stop.. and she just realize how much her husband love her but it's too late


so, the moral value of the story is..


When you love someone, let them know... You never know what will happen the next minute....
Learn to build a life together..
Learn to love each other.
For who they are.. not what they are... 

Thursday, December 1, 2011

当一个男人做出这些事,他真的很爱你了.. ❤When a man to make these things, he really loves you .. ❤


When a man will do these things to you, that means he is really loves you ...




一个男人 如果真的爱你的话,就一定会做出下面这些事:

(一)愿意 为你掏钱
钱,在感情生活中不是最重要的,但是是必须的。
一个男人如果是真的爱你的话,就不会为你去计算钱,只要你需要的合理,有能力支付,就一定不会不答应。因为在他心裡,连你都是他的了,为什么还不能给你花钱?


(1) he willing to pay you money
Money, in the emotional life is not the most important, but is necessary.
If a man really loves you, he will not be calculate the money with you. Because in his heart, even you are already become his one, why not give you money?

(二)愿意 听你诉苦
女人常常会有很多的不开心事情,
在男人看来很多只是很小的事情,甚至不值得去在乎..
一个爱你的男人,会希望了解到你在想什么,会愿意听你的诉苦,听完你很多的话后,再发表下评论,安慰下你..


(2) willing to listen to you complain
Women often have a lot of unhappy things,

for men it will be a very small things or doesn't matter, sometimes not even worth to care about it...
If a man that really loves you, he will want to know what you are think, would be willing to listen to you complain, after listening to your words, and then he will give you some comment, and comfort about you ..

(三)愿意 为你让自己受苦
年轻的男人,大多数是爱拼搏的,自己苦一点,累一点,没有关係;
经济条件有限的人,会自己减少开支,来付出在感情上,有能力的人,则会在做每一件事的时候, 都在考虑关於你的未来..
自己吃饭的时候,会在想你有没有吃,自己在娱乐的时候,总会想到要是能把你带去就好了,自己在开心的时候,总会想到你这时候会是怎 样的心情,总之不管自己处於什么状态,都会想到你..



(C willing to suffer himself for you
A young menmostly love struggleown bitter point tired point no relationship;
Economic conditions limited people will own reduce spending to pay emotionallycapable people will doing everything when are considering on your future ..
When they are having their dinner, they will think about you have eaten yet 

When they own in their entertainment time, they will always thought about you and bring you out together.When they are in a happy mood, they will always think of you at this time what will be your mood is, No matter what their status is, they will always thinking about you..
(四)愿意 为你收场
两个人在一起吃饭,常常女生最后都会说吃不下了,
爱你的男人,会情愿帮你的吃完剩下的..
现在这个年龄的男人,大多数在家裡是被当著宝贝养大的,一直都是家人付出,自己享受,如果真的很爱一个人,他会放下自己,去为了爱的人..

(D) Willing to help you do everything
When two people eating together,  girls often unable to eat the girls finish,
when a man that love you, he will be willing to help you finish the rest ..
Now the men in this agemost of the baby at home is to be raised in front, and has always been family to pay their own enjoyment themselves, this is selfish and if he really love a person, he will put himself to the people to love only no matter what situation is it. Lover first.
(五)在关键时候,总会护住你
两 个人一起逛街的时候,爱你的男人会走在靠马路的一边,
而你则在靠马路里面的一边,这样你会很安全..
下雨的时候,总会把伞向你那边多倾斜一点,
即使自己淋湿了,也不想让你受到一点点的雨淋..
登山的时候,爱你的男人总会在你后面,可以保护著你向上 爬。
刮大风的时候,会紧紧抱住你,不让你被风吹到..
不管在什么 情况下,都愿意尽量减少给你带去的伤害..




(E) He will always protect you at every moment
When two people go shopping together,  if a man that really love you, he will walk in through the side of the road,
And you are in the side by the road insideso you will be safe ..
When it rains, he will always tilt the umbrella a little more to your side,
Even if their body go throught  that wet, he do not want you to wet even a little bit of rain ..
When climbing, he will always if a man that really love you, he will always walk behind you, so that he can always protect behind of you.
No matter under what circumstances, he will always holding your hand to everywhere and is willing to minimize the damage which brought to you ..
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只要是他是真心对你好的,你就应该去珍惜,
一个女人对男人最大的珍惜,就是好好的去爱他,
心裡只有他一个,愿意和他一起去承受生活中要面对的..



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As long as if he/she is really treat you good and love you, you should learn how to treasure him/her,
A man's greatest treasure is to love your lover treasure,
If your heart only him/her, you will bear and live with him/her forever to face the difficult life ..