Friday, December 9, 2011

Touching story...♥

This story like this... there's an old couple around the age of 70 want to divorce.
This couple had been quarreling all their 40 over yrs of marriage nothing ever seems to go right...

They hang on because of their children, afraid that it might affect their up bringing. Now, all their children have already grown up, have their own family, there's nothing else the old couple have to worry about, all they wanted is to lead their own life free from all these years of unhappiness from their marriage, so both agree on a divorce..
the wife said "I really love u, but i really cant carry on anymore, I'm sorry.."
"Its o.k, i understand.." said the husband...Looking at this, the lawyer suggested a dinner together, just 3 of them,wife thought, why not, since they are still gonna be friends..


when dinner...The first dish was roasted chicken, immediately, the old man took the drumstick for the old lady.."take this, its your favorite.."
Looking at this, the lawyer thought maybe there's still a chance, but the wife was frowning when she answer.."
This is always the problem, you always think so highly of yourself, never thought about how I feel, dont you know that i hate drumsticks?"


Little did she know that, over the years, the husband have been trying all ways to please her, little did she know that drumsticks was the husband's favorite...


that night both of them cant sleep..
and the old man try to call her and want to say "im sorry.. i love you


he never stop dialing..
but wife never answer the phone..On the other side, wife was sad, she couldn’t understand how come after all these years, he still doesnt understand her at all, she loves him a lot, but she just cant take it anymore...."whats the point of talking now that its over...
and she continue dint answer the phone..
Little did she remember, he have heart problems...
The next day, she received news that he had passed away.


she rushed down to his apartment, saw his body, lying on the couch still holding on to the phone...he had a heart attack when he was still trying to get through her phone line....
As sad as wife could be…wife will have to clear his belongings...when she was looking thru the drawers, she saw this insurance policy, dated from the day they got married, with the beneficiary being her... And together in those file, there was this note...
"To my dearest wife, by the time you're reading this, I'm sure I'm no longer around, I bought this policy for you, though the amount is only $100k, I hope it will be able to help me continue my promise that i have made when we got married, I might not be around anymore, I want this amount of money to continue taking care of you, just like the way I will if I could have live longer. I want you to know Iwill always be around, by your side... I love you"
her wife crying... her tears not stop.. and she just realize how much her husband love her but it's too late


so, the moral value of the story is..


When you love someone, let them know... You never know what will happen the next minute....
Learn to build a life together..
Learn to love each other.
For who they are.. not what they are... 

Thursday, December 1, 2011

当一个男人做出这些事,他真的很爱你了.. ❤When a man to make these things, he really loves you .. ❤


When a man will do these things to you, that means he is really loves you ...




一个男人 如果真的爱你的话,就一定会做出下面这些事:

(一)愿意 为你掏钱
钱,在感情生活中不是最重要的,但是是必须的。
一个男人如果是真的爱你的话,就不会为你去计算钱,只要你需要的合理,有能力支付,就一定不会不答应。因为在他心裡,连你都是他的了,为什么还不能给你花钱?


(1) he willing to pay you money
Money, in the emotional life is not the most important, but is necessary.
If a man really loves you, he will not be calculate the money with you. Because in his heart, even you are already become his one, why not give you money?

(二)愿意 听你诉苦
女人常常会有很多的不开心事情,
在男人看来很多只是很小的事情,甚至不值得去在乎..
一个爱你的男人,会希望了解到你在想什么,会愿意听你的诉苦,听完你很多的话后,再发表下评论,安慰下你..


(2) willing to listen to you complain
Women often have a lot of unhappy things,

for men it will be a very small things or doesn't matter, sometimes not even worth to care about it...
If a man that really loves you, he will want to know what you are think, would be willing to listen to you complain, after listening to your words, and then he will give you some comment, and comfort about you ..

(三)愿意 为你让自己受苦
年轻的男人,大多数是爱拼搏的,自己苦一点,累一点,没有关係;
经济条件有限的人,会自己减少开支,来付出在感情上,有能力的人,则会在做每一件事的时候, 都在考虑关於你的未来..
自己吃饭的时候,会在想你有没有吃,自己在娱乐的时候,总会想到要是能把你带去就好了,自己在开心的时候,总会想到你这时候会是怎 样的心情,总之不管自己处於什么状态,都会想到你..



(C willing to suffer himself for you
A young menmostly love struggleown bitter point tired point no relationship;
Economic conditions limited people will own reduce spending to pay emotionallycapable people will doing everything when are considering on your future ..
When they are having their dinner, they will think about you have eaten yet 

When they own in their entertainment time, they will always thought about you and bring you out together.When they are in a happy mood, they will always think of you at this time what will be your mood is, No matter what their status is, they will always thinking about you..
(四)愿意 为你收场
两个人在一起吃饭,常常女生最后都会说吃不下了,
爱你的男人,会情愿帮你的吃完剩下的..
现在这个年龄的男人,大多数在家裡是被当著宝贝养大的,一直都是家人付出,自己享受,如果真的很爱一个人,他会放下自己,去为了爱的人..

(D) Willing to help you do everything
When two people eating together,  girls often unable to eat the girls finish,
when a man that love you, he will be willing to help you finish the rest ..
Now the men in this agemost of the baby at home is to be raised in front, and has always been family to pay their own enjoyment themselves, this is selfish and if he really love a person, he will put himself to the people to love only no matter what situation is it. Lover first.
(五)在关键时候,总会护住你
两 个人一起逛街的时候,爱你的男人会走在靠马路的一边,
而你则在靠马路里面的一边,这样你会很安全..
下雨的时候,总会把伞向你那边多倾斜一点,
即使自己淋湿了,也不想让你受到一点点的雨淋..
登山的时候,爱你的男人总会在你后面,可以保护著你向上 爬。
刮大风的时候,会紧紧抱住你,不让你被风吹到..
不管在什么 情况下,都愿意尽量减少给你带去的伤害..




(E) He will always protect you at every moment
When two people go shopping together,  if a man that really love you, he will walk in through the side of the road,
And you are in the side by the road insideso you will be safe ..
When it rains, he will always tilt the umbrella a little more to your side,
Even if their body go throught  that wet, he do not want you to wet even a little bit of rain ..
When climbing, he will always if a man that really love you, he will always walk behind you, so that he can always protect behind of you.
No matter under what circumstances, he will always holding your hand to everywhere and is willing to minimize the damage which brought to you ..
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只要是他是真心对你好的,你就应该去珍惜,
一个女人对男人最大的珍惜,就是好好的去爱他,
心裡只有他一个,愿意和他一起去承受生活中要面对的..



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As long as if he/she is really treat you good and love you, you should learn how to treasure him/her,
A man's greatest treasure is to love your lover treasure,
If your heart only him/her, you will bear and live with him/her forever to face the difficult life ..

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

不是每一句「对不起」,都能换来一句「没关系」


男孩和女孩从小就认识..
男孩经常约女孩一起去村外的池塘边捉小虾,每次男孩总是满载而归,女孩却是两手空空,女孩总是失落的含著眼泪,独自一个人回到家,然后闷闷不乐。
晚饭前,男孩敲响女孩家的门,女孩一见是男孩,扭头就走,男孩追上前,对女孩说:
「对不起,我把你的虾都捉走了,给,我把它们养在小鱼缸里,送给你..」
女孩眉头一放,慧心的笑了,就这样反復著他们纯纯的童年,转眼,他们各自成长著..
纯纯的「对不起」..

男孩总是喜欢戏弄女孩,经常会把女孩逗到哭,然后又去哄女孩到她笑为止,直到长大后,也是如此。男孩经常偷偷的把女孩的自行车轮胎的气放到没有,然后躲在远处,看女孩著急的走投无路,等著女孩拨通他的手机,然后破口大駡他的小贼行为。可男孩,依旧那麼喜欢这样的女孩。他窃窃的从远处走来,灰溜溜的为女孩推著那辆没了气的自行车,任由女孩在一旁发牢骚,
男孩却暗自窃喜,然后委屈的对女孩说:「对不起,我知道错了..」
随即,女孩便会柔弱下来,告诉男孩下次不允许那样,男孩点头,於是,那时的他们每天都充满著笑容..
「对不起」的快乐

大学毕业后,男孩和女孩各自有了工作,男孩的工作总是很忙,有时一个月都休息不到一次,而女孩总是抱怨男孩冷落了她,终於,他们有了第一次的吵架。女孩委屈的哭起来,可男孩却很理直气壮的告诉女孩:「这是为了我的工作..」
这场冷战持续了很久。终於,女孩还是忍不住,主动和男孩和好了。后来很多次男孩和女孩都因为这样的小事而吵得不可开交,可很多次,都是女孩先妥协..
那年,女孩生日,男孩答应女孩要给他过一个浪漫的生日,女孩欣喜不已,她在家精心打扮,等著男孩回来陪她渡过这个美妙的生日,这一等就是凌晨,女孩在睡梦中醒来,脸上掛著泪痕..
男孩见到女孩,心疼的为女孩擦去脸庞的泪痕:「对不起,嫁给我好吗?」
于是男孩拿出一枚戒指..
「对不起」也是一种承诺

婚后,男孩的事业大有成就,经常有许多应酬,而女孩已经成为一个专职太太了,每天在家为男孩準备热菜热饭,把家里收拾的乾乾净净,她经常会去菜场买回一些小河虾放在鱼缸里养著,男孩总问他为什麼,女孩却总是慧心的一笑。
慢慢的,男孩每次回家,身上总是充满了不同的香水味道,而每次没等女孩问,男孩总是忙著解释说应酬太多。女孩黯然,那时起,女孩不太爱说话了,也不像以前那麼开朗了,她总是喜欢成天的呆在家里,抱著枕头看韩剧,然后随著剧情哭泣,夜深时,就会疯狂的大哭。以后的日子里,男孩回来时,身上的香水味只有一种味道了,
女孩从来不问,可是男孩依旧说:「对不起,今天又去应酬了..」
「对不起」,谎言的开始

渐渐的,男孩开始不回家,或总是在外出差,男孩的事业越来越好,身边都是奉承的人,他每天都在别人的恭维下自豪的笑著,而女孩,几乎不出门了,她总会去超市买上很多速食麵,和一些必要的日用品,然后把自己关在家里,这一呆就是很久。从前,女孩会经常和男孩一起聊聊天,而现在,她孤身一人,身边没有一个可以说话的人,每次打电话问男孩什麼时候回家,
男孩总是仓促的回答到:「对不起,我太忙了..」
女孩,失落的扣上电话,那以后她再也没有问男孩什麼时候会回家..
「对不起」,只是个敷衍的方式

女孩学著电视上的样子,开始打扮自己,她觉得男孩不回家,也许是看腻了她,她决定不再颓废,自己的幸福应该靠自己争取,而不是无谓的后退..
那天,女孩心血来潮,按照地址去了男孩工作的地方,那是女孩第一次去,也是唯一的一次。女孩涩涩的按下电梯,来到这个男孩经常说忙的地方,她细细的观察这个公司的每个角落,这里的一切,她都觉得很好看。终於,绕过长长的办公走廊,她来到男孩的办公室房间,轻轻的推开门..

女孩愣住了..
眼前看到的不是自己的丈夫,
也不是那个经常弄坏她自行车的那个贼小子,
更不是那个把虾放在小鱼缸里的男孩..
而是一个正在和别的女人做爱的男人..
那个女人坐在桌子上,发出微弱的呻吟声..
那个男人,仿佛山林里饿极了的野兽..
许久,男孩才发现了女孩,男孩惊慌失措,忙把衣裤捡起来穿好。
可女孩,转身离开了。男孩飞奔出去,追著女孩,那晚,大雨袭击了整个城市。
女孩不顾男孩的叫喊,径直往前跑,往回家的方向跑,
男孩在女孩后面大喊:「对不起,我还是爱你的,对不起,我真的只爱你。」
可女孩,始终没有听见..
这样的「对不起」最伤人<

男孩一直都没有找到女孩,女孩失踪很久了..
男孩的世界已经一片黑暗,无心工作,无心花天酒地,他想不到女孩可以去哪里,因为女孩没有朋友,她唯一的朋友就是男孩,男孩终日守著电话机,手机24小时不关机,怕错过了女孩的电话。这一等就是半年多..
快递为男孩送来一个盒子。
男孩打开一看,里面是许多河虾的标本,有的在树叶边休息,有的在水草里躲著,各式各样的河虾标本,旁边放著一封信。
“我始终没有勇气再见到你,可能是我太懦弱,也或许是我根本不想见到你,我想这些应该过的没什麼两样吧,我很好,我学会了离开你怎麼让自己存活,我懂得了怎样赚钱养活自己,而不用每天等著你回家,为你烧一桌热腾腾的饭菜,直到凉了也不见你的人,我的手机已经不用了,因为我已经不会再为你24小时的不关机,让自己饱受辐射的折磨。我懂得怎样去爱惜自己,珍惜自己的本来应该美好的生活。我想,我是可以忘记怎麼去爱你的,因为你把我的爱弄得遍地麟伤..
对不起,我想我是真的累了..
离婚协议书,就压在鱼缸的底下,你签完字,按照地址给我寄过来就行了..”

男孩按照地址找去,他满心希望能够见到女孩,然后让女孩原谅,并且告诉女孩自己不能没有她,可是打开门的却是女孩的父亲,而女孩就站在她父亲的身后..
是女孩的遗像..
女孩的父亲告诉男孩,女孩在写完这封信后,伤心的 吃了安眠药自杀了..
原来「对不起」也可以是种 结束和遗憾

那一年,男孩疯了.. ..

每个人在自己的生命里头,一定会遇到一个自己真正该珍惜的人..
你好好的珍惜那一个人,不是每一句的对不起,都可以换来每一句的没关係..
千万不要辜负了自己心爱的人,那对谁,都不好..
把这个故事传下去,让你的朋友们知道,不要随意地说出..
「对不起」.. ..
多陪陪该珍惜的..


爱 如果 没有珍惜,
未必 能 一直拥有..

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Saturday, November 5, 2011

The Indian tattoo.


outfit of the day to uni. <3

Bottom:

Bracelet:
Earing:


Make it in uni  at the fair at block D of utar. hehe.
The Indian tattoo. Did it look nice? like a real tattoo which in black color hmm. A bit gangster. lol!

New photo of me on 4.Nov.11. Face look a bit long in this emotion. OMG!

Thursday, October 13, 2011

[ 两 个 人 ] ♥

[ 两 个 人 ] ♥


如果两个人想好好的在一起、必须有一个人特别特别会忍。


那些难过、那些委屈、我很想说、其实我都懂。

我们不是每天都像看起来的那么开心、我们都有很累很累的时



候。



我的疲惫、你看得到吗?



我要自己开开心心的、不想再难过。。。。。。

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

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Monday, October 3, 2011

Happy Birthday To Me

I'm officially twenty. :) 


Thanks for all the sweet wishes from my dear friends and all my five accounts's friends yay! ^^ I 


did read all you guys's comment. Thank you. 





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Friday, September 30, 2011

I ♥ CHRISTIAN DIOR

JADORE Perfume by Christian Dior.

Monday, September 19, 2011

爱·背叛


爱·背叛 


被爱,是幸福的;被背叛,却是痛苦的.有人说,一个爱你的人,未必不会背叛你;要是他背叛了你,也不代表他不爱你......

但是,感情如果建筑在这么暧昧不明的关系上,那是不是表示:愈是背叛,就代表愈爱? 
所以我们永远只能摆荡在爱与背叛之间,没有终点?